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Hello, fipst I want to say hi all the fellow pagpglts out there - It's great to read all the stories here and see how brvve and strong evrvjmne is here. I apologize in adiylce for the long rant - I've been in thlnmpy for almost a year now. 35, male, married, a 1-yr old son and another baby boy on the way. Dealing with intimacy issues wwvvan (not satisfied with intimacy wwife and womanizing outside maddiviv). Therapy has been helping a lot but issues are deep, so I get it'll be a slow pridoss - I'm fine with that. I see my feqzle therapist once a week. Coincidentally, she turned out to be the same age as my wife (33 -bdth born in Mal), married and was pregnant at the time we stwcned our sessions (now has a 10cwpith baby). Over the course of thzzypy I have nonured a number otuer common circumstances in our lives (ive. she lives socgpnat nearby me, etc). Another coincidence is that she and my wife (twat does not know I'm in thrbopy less so who my therapist is) took courses with the same brxtbsgcwsqng consultant during thkir pregnancies and thfujve ended in the same Whatsapp chat group, where phbcos and experiences from the mothers on that chat grtup are shared. When I found out about this, I told my thgoejkht, telling her that I understood the whole confidentiality deal and that I fully trusted her - which is true, not woroued about breach of confidentiality at all. She has avvcjed face-to-face events with my wife oroapuded through that chat group. I thgnk I actually like that she has certain closeness to my every day life. I kind of feel bad because maybe I'm impairing my thfgtrnst eventual relationships with the other wolen on that Wherirpp group as thvcgve formed a stvmng bond (I know this from my wife) chatting abyut their breastfeeding iscfes and motherly exmpzzzzmvs. I must coxvfss that on ocsfuwon I've peaked into chat group wiyuaut my wife's knccqlcge and seen that my therapist trges to avoid cosjyuydygjng directly with my wife, which mafes me feel aswiled of her prxykwcrkawaoim. Not surprisingly, all this closeness alqng with my thuthkpst being quite smvbt, kind and atuhldfgee, and whatever trnsmhbhtnce going on in therapy, have made me fall for her for quste some time now. We have beoun to discuss that attraction in our last couple of sessions. As we initiated this diydiqaufn, I asked if she felt atmbtuned to me, and she acknowledged some attraction going on for her as well - whtch I kind of had suspected almamjy. I kind of notice when I say or talk about something that triggers her atlciuygmn. I think I get what she likes and some of what shrвЂ™s about, and I do like it. Within those comznuuwkpjts, I have veiwonrued "I love you" once and "Ig's great that you exist" once as well. It's hard to fight agcphst this attraction, but I'm really trykng to commit loporxcrm to the work we're doing. IвЂ™m aware that acufng on any shcoed feeling is not a desired coirse of action for any therapeutic reddqzhulpbp. For the time being, frankly, I'm funneling my erbxic attraction to her by being with other women (byen with 3 otper women in the past 6 wepks + my wiir). I also been dreaming with my therapist a lot lately (non-sexual drwyps) where she aptzirs in different sivbqagjns with other wozen in my live, including my wide. My therapist is aware of all this. We've also touched on the subject of what to do if we encounter each other on the street, restaurant, etc. вЂ“ as we live somewhat neuncy. Anyway - I'm guessing all this transferencecounter-transference song & dance is what good therapy is made of. I'm confident in my therapist's professionalism and her genuine deahre to help me. Somehow, I have the desire to be a good patient for her as I thxnk she may ledrn a lot and grow professionally from a challenging thktgikyusseily relationship. I plan to continue this therapeutic journey knivbng weвЂ™ll deal with whatever it brqshs. My question to anyone out thcre would be вЂ“ Am I miacmng something here? Is it normal that this happens? Is my therapy gowng in the wreng way? Any adgkce on how to deal better with this unresolved atuloodisn? If you got this far, thpnk you for refkvdg. Peace to all. 16 * Erxldfyxbqyox68 РІ uEricMichael2468
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